Where does one begin...losing a limb is loss greater than u can imagine. The repercussions of that are even worse. Each case is different - loss of a limb due to diabetes, road accident, doctors malpractice...the list goes on. Each of us deals with the pain and the loss very differently. To bring to light what me and my family went through emotionally, financially and physically is not possible. I will however try and put it across in the best possible manner. For me the pain was unbearable they performed 4 surgeries before they decided to take it off above the knee. My whole life changed ....no more jogging, biking, wearing heels, sandals...I felt I'd lost my feminine side and started feeling extremely unsure of myself. My family stopped functioning and could not bear to see me the way i was or the pain i was going through - they all acted like i was dead or that i was crippled and could not do anything on my own. I threatened suicide and moved to the middle east and make a life of my own. I needed my space to grieve, to wash off the guilt that i felt for having put my family through this ordeal. The only way to recovery is to start mentally. Do not be an escapist (like me) - it does not grow back... get help and communicate with the family and people with similar disadvantages. unfortunately, i thought i would manage ...i guess thats why i'm still groping.
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